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Homeless man stabbed trying to save woman left to die
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By The New York Times
Posted: 04/26/2010
NEW YORK It will probably never be clear how many
people realized that Hugo Alfredo Tale-Yax was dying.
One man bent down to the sidewalk to shake the man,
lifting him to reveal a pool of blood before walking
away. Two men appeared to have a conversation about the
situation, one taking a photo of the body before
departing. But the rest merely turned their heads toward
the body, revealing some curiosity as they hurried along.
What is clear from a surveillance tape is that Tale-Yax,
a homeless Guatemalan immigrant, lay on a Queens street
for more than an hour before anyone called police. By the
time help arrived, he was dead.
Tale-Yax, who friends said occasionally worked as a day
laborer and often slept in public parks, had been stabbed
while apparently coming to the assistance of a woman
being confronted by another man.
On Sunday, a week after the killing, people in the area
seemed mostly unshaken by its circumstances. Many were
unaware that someone had died on the street in a
hardscrabble neighborhood with large populations of
Central American immigrants and of homeless men.
But to the question of obligation whether those
who encountered the body should have stopped and helped
the man the answers came quickly.
Perhaps the passers-by thought he was drunk. Perhaps they
were illegal immigrants themselves, too nervous to
contact the authorities. Or perhaps they had just learned
a lesson that Tale-Yax so clearly had not: better to keep
to oneself than to risk the trouble that comes from
extending a helping hand.
"It's bad," said Alexis Perez, 29, the
superintendent of two buildings on the block where the
stabbing occurred. "But I live here, so I know what
it's like. There are a lot of alcoholics who drink, and
then they fall down and they're laying on the ground.
People say to themselves, 'I don't know them, so I won't
get involved.' "
Regardless of the explanation, the death has become
another unfortunate case study in bystander behavior in
emergencies, a psychological field that developed after
the 1964 killing of Kitty Genovese, who was stabbed to
death in Queens, where neighbors heard her screams but
did not call police.
The death of Tale-Yax is all the more dramatic because
police say he was stabbed as a result of his apparently
trying to help a stranger.
"I'm afraid what we've got here is a situation of
people failing to help, and the failure appears to be a
moral failure," said John Darley, a professor of
psychology at Princeton University. "He did what
you're supposed to do, and we let the person, who did
what he was supposed to do, die."
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