Marie

Marie was asked to look at this list of common negative feelings and tell us which ones she feels with her mom

Here is our chat:

Marie: wow
Marie: i feel alot of those
Marie: Lectured to, Disrespected,
Marie: mocked
Marie: Imprisoned L
Stevehein: k what else?
Marie: Restricted, powerless
Stevehein: any more?
Stevehein: so far we have... lectured to, disrespected, mocked, imprisoned, restricted, powerless

Then she got disconnected but when she came back she told me about the painting she had done. So I asked if I could see it, then if I could post it....

The best years of my life?

My partner said that her mother used to tell her that. I said, "Okay.... so these are the best years of my life? That pretty much means it is all down hill from here, so that answers my question about whether I want to keep on living or not. Thanks, Mom. I was having a really hard time deciding!"

Unfinished...

Stevehein: ok so u just said ur moms being nasty in the pm... like in what way nasty?
Marie: making snide comments all day long
Marie: like she saidd "we need to stop...._____" and looked at me real pointedly
Stevehein: lol
Stevehein: ok that was niice of her

Marie: :/
Stevehein: how would u say u felt at that moment?
Marie: real annoyed
Stevehein: yeah - what else?
Marie: cuz she _____________t
Marie: and i felt mad
Stevehein: explain mad more
Marie: well it just seemed real unfair i guess :/
Stevehein: yeah sounds like u get that kind of stuff from her enough to where it has built up and ur sick of hearing it and seeing her accuse u of things she does herself
Marie: yes exactly
Stevehein: resentful is a word that comes to mind...
Stevehein: id feel resentful i guess.
Marie: yeah i couldnt remeber that word heh
Stevehein: ha ha
Marie: lol

Stevehein: hey lets try something... look at this list plz and tell me which u feel often with ur mom www.eqi.org/cnfs.htm