American School Principal Spanks Students On Their Birthdays

American School Principal Spanks Students On Their Birthdays

Here is an article from an American newspaper. I would like to point out two things. First, the words "feel, feeling or feelings" are not used anywhere in the article. Second, what is most important here seems to be what is least talked about. In other words, how do the *students* feel about what the principal is doing?

Some schools might wish your child a happy birthday on the public address system or pass out cookies in the classroom but at Washington Elementary School in Linn County, Iowa they do things a bit differently. Terry Eisenbarth, the principal at the school, is under fire for spanking kids with a padded hockey stick on their birthdays, a tradition he calls “whammies,” according to the Des Moines Register .

Complaints about Principal Terry Eisenbarth’s birthday “whammies” at Washington Elementary School are also under review by school board members, who met behind closed doors Wednesday night. About 70 people waited outside the meeting, parents said.
“I do not spank my kids at home on their birthdays,” said Steve Wernimont, 44, who has three children. “That is not a celebration. It’s being subservient to a dominating figure.”Wernimont and his husband, Ric Turnquist, said their three children, ages 9, 8 and 7, received birthday whammies last fall. The children didn’t acknowledge the spankings until this month, when Wernimont said he heard about the practice and asked them about it.
The older children didn’t seem to mind, but the 7-year-old boy, who has post-traumatic stress disorder and other emotional problems, “did not like it one bit,” Wernimont said.
The couple said they complained to police and the school board only after Superintendent Pamela Ewell did not respond to an email for several days. Ewell and Eisenbarth did not return telephone calls Thursday.

In a letter to parents, Eisenbarth described the “pat on the backside” as a birthday tradition. He celebrated each child’s birthday with an announcement on the school intercom, followed by an invitation to the principal’s office.
Eisenbarth gave students pencils and calculators, sang “Happy Birthday” and spanked them once for each year of their lives, the letter said.
School employees or parents often participated, and no children were injured, the letter said. Eisenbarth, 38, said he stopped the birthday spankings after someone complained that they “created an uncomfortable situation,” the letter said.
“I am very sorry that I have caused discomfort to some by celebrating birthdays in this manner,” Eisenbarth wrote.

The hockey stick was wrapped in plastic foam, Mount Vernon police said.
Police initially ruled that a complaint from parents was unfounded. Then they forwarded the investigation to Linn County sheriff’s officials to avoid allegations of a conflict of interest.Sheriff Brian Gardner said police “work closely” with school officials in Mount Vernon, a district of about 1,300 students.

“We’re probably going to review the reports, see if there may be any holes, perhaps interview a witness and make a determination as to whether there has been a criminal offense,” Gardner said.

Carol Greta, an attorney at the Iowa Department of Education, said birthday spankings don’t appear to violate a state ban on corporal punishment, “which is defined as intentional physical punishment.”

But school boards and state officials who oversee educator licensing can take action against employees who act inappropriately, she said.

Wernimont said the issue has divided residents of Mount Vernon.
“I’ve gotten calls from people who’ve said, ‘You’re ruining the image of our town,’ ” he said.
Other parents blame Eisenbarth, who is wrapping up his first year as elementary principal in Mount Vernon.

Bob Penn, the school board’s vice president, would not discuss the board’s next move. Penn called it a personnel issue that he can’t discuss publicly.
“Our mission is always to try to make decisions that are in the best interests of the kids in the district,” he said. “That’s what we’re about.”

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