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Jared High

 

I just found out about this. Again it was the mother and father who last saw and talked to him. On the day he killed himself the mother and he were arguing about ....

 

his school homework.

 

Does she take any responsibility? Or does she look for someone else to blame?

In watching this video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0EmQ3NLg2l4&

I saw no evidence of her talking any responsibility whatsoever.

Notice the woman, who I think is a school counselor, who says something like kids can get themselves into a very dark place.... and maybe even hurt themselves!

(my emphasis)

And look at her face as she nods as if to try to convince herself that it is all the kid's fault - of course not the schools or the parents or even the "bully's"

This woman obviously know next to nothing about self-harm.

Below I have a copy of his mother's advertisement for herself. You will see what I mean when you look at it.

I was suspiecious of her when I saw the jaredhigh.com website. It has so many ads on it that it is a sad joke as a memorial to Jared.

All the Christian, Morman and Spiritual stuff makes me feel almost sick. I can't stand to even look at it long enough to do a print screen. So maybe someone else could do a few for me.

This is so TYPICAL of mothers whose teens kill themselves!!!!!!!!!! Now she is making money from her son's suicide!!!!!!

It reminds me of the "Yellow Ribbon" campaign but I dont even want to search for it now.... I need to get away from this for a while....

S Hein
Dec 25, 2011

 

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another video about "bullycide" --

http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=ngsO_92Wt3M&

there are a LOT of vids about so call ed bullycide on youtube. but who is seeing the connection between the parents and the suicides? let me know if you find even one video which shows this connection...

when will they come up with a term "mothercide"?

About the Author of JaredStory.com

Brenda High

Education:

Olympus High School - Holiday Utah
Scottsdale High School - Scottsdale Arizona
Ricks College - Associates Degree - College in Rexburg Idaho - Now BYU-Idaho


>>>> Morman, Studied Psychology

Brigham Young University - Bachelor of Science Degree, Psychology



>>> Licenses in Real Estate, Insurance, and Securities


* ie is interested in MONEY!!!!!!!



Believes education is a lifelong process - enjoys taking one-nighter classes on interesting subjects. (check out Getting a Passion for some ideas on what classes to take.)


Mission:
Served a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints -January 1976 - August 1977 (Tennessee)

Married to a wonderful husband, Bill, in the Arizona Temple - April 1978- Since marrying Bill, we have lived in Utah, Colorado, Arizona and Washington State.

Children:
Sonja - Married, and has given us 2 Grandsons, Jared & David
Jacob - Married, and is in Law School
Tara - Married, and is giving us another Grandson in 2010
Jared - Jared is the reason for JaredStory.com.

Work:
Grandma duties - Writing - working on websites - paying bills, etc. Always involved in some sort of 'at home' or Network Marketing Businesses. I've settled down with ACN now and I'm excited about my future with this company. To learn more about ACN,go to our website at www.bhigh.myacn.acninc.com. ...And I would love to have some partners working with me.

>> here is the ACN website.... it is "Network Marketing Company" IE multi level marketing IE All about MONEY - a ripoff - a scam- a pyramid scheme

checking "pyramid scheme acn" i quickly found this in fact....

From Wikipedia Dec 2011

 

ACN has been subjected to numerous legal allegations regarding it's MLM (mult level marketing) business operation.

In August, 2010 the Montana Commissioner of Securities and Insurance Monica Lindeen (D) announced the issuance of a [lawsuit] against ACN, Inc. and several of its founders for allegedly operating a "
pyramid scheme." The Commissioner also cited the low average earnings of ACN reps based in Montana. Allegedly, in 2008 ACN recruited 91 Montana participants who "paid approximately $61,741.69 to be a part of the program", averaging $678 each. All but two lost money...

On three separate occasions, in Canada in 2002,[30] Australia in 2004,[31] and 2010 in Montana in the United States,[32] ACN was alleged to be operating an illegal pyramid scheme.

ACN requires a $499 startup fee to join their telecommunications sales team which the company says is for overhead and representative support. The emphasis is on providing telecommunications products the company sells, as well as recruiting new representatives by sharing the opportunity.[27] Phil Shuman of Fox News 11 in Los Angeles claimed in an investigative news report that ACN is a company that has left a trail of people claiming they were misled about money making opportunities.[27]

I know enough about this mother... religious, interested in money - was in real estate like Megan Meier's mother


Sept. 1998 - Apr. 2000, Worked part-time as a Personal Assistant, P.A., to a Top Network Marketing Executive (millionaire).

Currently: Writer, Volunteer; Founder, Co-Director of Bully Police USA (www.bullypolice.org), and JaredStory.com webmaster, as well as various Computer projects.

Writer - My first book is called, "Bullycide in America: Moms Speak Out About the Bullying/Suicide Connection." It's written by myself and other moms who have lost their children to "Bullycide" (www.Bullycide.org). My 2nd book(s) are a series of e-books, which can be found at www.bullypolice.com. My next book in late 2010 - Bullycide in America: Speaking Out about the Bullying/Suicide Connection.

I also do some Consulting and Speaking about Jared, my personal experiences, advocacy for anti bullying laws and bullying research (www.BrendaHigh.com). I also teach schools, parents and kids about "The Heroes Method" demonstrated at www.HeroesInTheCrowd.com. Some day I will write a book about this proactive and positive method of dealing with bullying in school: Heroes in the Crowd.


>> Republican - too busy with politics to have time to listen to her son?

why does she even need to tell us so much about herself????

it looks like she is using this to try to advertisde HERSELF!!!!!!



Politics:

Began involvement over Homeschooling Laws in the State of Colorado... was successful.

>>>Was she successful as a mother?????


Maricopa County Registration Chairman (GOP) in Arizona before moving to Washington State.
>> Franklin County Chairman (GOP) Dec. 1990 - Dec. 1996
>>Elected to Pasco School District Board of Education - Fall 1991 to Summer 1995
Occasionally I work on campaigns - I'm always vocal about what I believe, but vocally "polite."
Testified to the Washington State House Ed. Committee about Bullying in Jan. 2002. The bill passed the Committee unanimously, then passed the House, Senate, and then was signed by the Governor into law in March 2002.
Have worked with other activists to get anti bullying laws passed around the USA and founded Bully Police USA in October 2003.
Testified to the Arizona State House Ed. Committee about Bullying in 2004, then the AZ State Senate in Feb. 2005. Arizona passed their anti bullying law in May 2005 and it was signed by the Governor into law. (Note: Jared was born in Phoenix in 1985 so I'm pleased that I had a chance to help get a law passed in Arizona.)
March 2006 was pleased to see "Jared's Law" passed in Idaho. Jared is buried in Ashton Idaho.
I love The Constitution in the Tradition of the Founding Fathers.
Favorite TV shows(if not working on the computer) - News shows such as FOX News, Medium, I LOVE anything Star Trek or Sci-Fi, Voyager (love reruns), StarGate SG-I, Adventure/tearjerker movies and love stories. I like Extreme Home Makeover and shows that have good endings. The more I cry the better the show probably is!
Favorite Movie - "Gone with the Wind"; Just can't beat Vivian Leigh & Clark Gable. My
favorite Movie Stars are Adrien Brody because he has beautiful puppy dog eyes and impressed me with his acting in "The Pianist", and Hillary Duff, because she's a great singer and shows sensitivity to others with all the roles she plays. (I like "chick flicks" too - but can't get my husband to go with me to those movies.)

Favorite Music - Ol' Time Rock and Roll - as long as the lyrics aren't nasty and the guitars don't scream. I like most Classical music, especially Antonio Vivaldi - The 4 Seasons. I like some Country music - if the guitars don't 'twang' - Big Band Era and Swing music - Glen Miller (I liked the movie too, with James Stewart) - Santana, Old Beatles music, Old Carpenters music, Yanni and my new favorite, JOSH GROBAN, who sings like an Angel! I like just about anything that has a catchy tune to sing to, and a good beat to dance to. When I was in college, I even won some dance contests, ...and, believe it or not, I used to do 'The Bump'!

Favorite Exercises - Walking - I don't jog because I ultimately will trip over something, I'm really clumsy. In the past I have enjoyed (or tried to enjoy) rollar-blading, softball, tennis, golf, swimming, ping pong, billiards, hiking, 4 Wheeling, water skiing, snow skiing, surfing, snowmobiling, fishing, horseback riding and bowling. ...Someday, I might try skydiving, when I've gone completely crazy!

Favorite types of Books - I like self-improvement books, Scriptures and spiritually uplifting books, truthful and educational books, and quick, easy to read, books. I also like Textbooks - Sometimes I like 'hard to read' books. When I read the Newspaper, I skip the propaganda in the editorials, but I like Letters to the Editor. I wish I could read more but I don't have much time... I'm always working on web pages.

I love People - You may be a strange duck, maybe you look different and act different, but for some odd reason, I like you anyway. I really hate gossip because I have been gossiped about. I know what its like to be hurt. Even if I disagree with someone, I will find common ground... and usually when it comes to helping kids who are bullied, we always agree.


Favorite Foods (from the 4 Food Groups)
Food group one - Dairy -
Chocolate milk
Food group two - Meat -
Chocolate Fudge covered minion

Food group three - Veggie -
Chocolate shish kabob

Food group four - Fruit -
Dip Chocolate watermelon



Things I can't do - I'm not a very good cook... I burn eggs, ...and almost our house at the same time. I'm a lousy decorator and I have no idea where to put things on a wall, like, "Oh, this is a good spot, there's nothing on that part of the wall!" As mentioned above, I don't jog. I also won't ride on fast roller-coasters, mostly because I'll throw-up. Also, I won't eat sugar free chocolate - If it's not the real thing it's not worth having. I can't sleep in church ...someone has to tell my husband when to wake up.
Want more information about me? Why? Okay, you can see a more serious "resume" about me at www.bullypolice.org/brenda.html as the Co-Director of Bully Police USA.

...And last but not least I'll leave you on a more spiritual tone -

My Favorite Scripture is, "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid." St. John 14:27


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