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Verbally Abusive Mother Video
| I wonder if I will live to see the day when teenagers have the legal right to record their parents screaming at them and the parents don't have the legal right to make them stop recording or to destroy the evidence. (note) S. Hein |
Here is tape of a mother screaming, threatening and swearing at her 16 year old son when he didn't want to loan her 50 dollars.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=of0C6AjnNu8& it is also here.. http://www.ebaumsworld.com/2006/07/mean_mom.html
Here is a transcript of the words as much as I could understand them
Later I had this convo with a teen who tried to kill herself...
Then this convo with another sucidal teen
Here is a book which might help teens who are being verbally/emotionally abused-- Teen Torment: Overcoming Verbal Abuse at Home and at School
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This is mostly the mother's since you can hear the son's pretty well...
Why are you doing this shit?
(Ask me nicely.)No you’re not fucking… Give me your fucking card so I can use it. Now!!
(Ask me nicely)Stick it up your fucking ass. I asked you nicely ten minutes ago!!! Now I’m getting real mad!!!
And I’m not gonna… (?)
I’ll fucking tear this room apart and fucking find it and you’ll be one sorry kid.
I don’t have time! I’ve gotta get back to work!
You’ve got one second!
You fucking bastard.
I’ll rip this fucking house afuckingpart.
Give me that god damn card now!
Fuck off you bastard. Fuck off!!
Get the fuck out of my house. Get out of my fucking house.
Get out. Get out. You pay the fucking bills. I can’t get my ass to work, you get out and pay these fucking bills!
Fuck off. You and your little head games you little 16 year old piece of shit.
You better fucking be out of my house when I get home from work today at 11 o’clock cuz if your in here you’re getting up and your getting’ your fucking ass out of here.
You can call your fucking father and go live with him, how about that you little son of a bitch?
You just turned this whole head game….
Fuck off. I asked you nicely when I came in here! You little jerk off!
You’re a little head games spoiled rotten brat.
You’re gonna learn about life real fuckin’ quick, cuz your fuckin’ bills won’t be paid Mr. Man.
Get that fucking card now. I have got to get to work.
2:57 You’re in my fucking house, you’ll follow my rules. You’re grounded! Totally. You don’t fuckin’ go to work, you don’t fuckin’ go to…
If you are found at fucking… I’m gonna drive down there and drag your ass out of there.
I’m gonna drive down there and tell your employer…
Good for you you little lazy fucking bastard.
You’re a fucking little piece of shit, you know that? That’s exactly what you are.
Fucking son of a fucking bitch.
????
Fucking ask nicely up your fucking ass you little spoiled rotten brat.
I’d like to fuckin’ smack your fucking head in. You’re a god damn prick!
All I fucking wanted was a lousy fucking 50 dollars!!
7:10 You be out of my house when I get home.You be out, or I’ll be calling the police.
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You a fucking selfish little prick.
????
Go to fucking hell and shoot yourself you bastard. Get the fuck out of my house.
You gonna wage fuckin’ war. You picked the wrong person to have fuckin’ war with… the person who butters your bread, you little lazy ass
You better fuckin’ be out…. or the fucking police will be coming..
(And what are you going to say to them?)
That I want you out.
(Good luck with that.)
Fine you go ahead and call them for me, cuz your out O U T
You have the ??… asking your fucking mother to beg…
steve says:
check this out
steve says:
http://eqi.org/vam1.htm
teen says:
i cant handle that
teen says:
i really cant
steve says:
hug
teen says:
hb
steve says:
yeah its pretty intense. i was wondering if that is like your
mother
teen says:
pretty much. exactly.
teen says:
she doesnt say fuck though
steve says:
does she use other swear words?
teen says:
yeah
teen says:
my mom used to tell me i couldnt go to work
teen says:
god
teen says:
she says that exact same shit
teen says:
seriously
steve says:
like which part
teen says:
all of it
teen says:
the things she screams
teen says:
that are compltely contradicting
teen says:
LEAVE
teen says:
and then "if u leave i will call the cops"
teen says:
or ur on restriction
teen says:
or something.
steve says:
restriction?
teen says:
grounding..
steve says:
where did she come up with that word
teen says:
idk
steve says:
sounds like something they use in jails
teen says:
eh
teen says:
i would just give in though
teen says:
and give her whatever she wanted
teen says:
or do whatever she wanted
teen says:
to get her to stop
teen says:
sooner
steve says:
yeah
steve says:
did u hear where she said id like to smash ur fucking head in?
teen says:
yeah
steve says:
i wonder if she used to him him or if she always just shouted
teen says:
idk
steve says:
maybe cuz she didnt actually hit him for a long time he knew she
would just yell
steve says:
or maybe she knows he would report her to the police if she did,
he seems pretty knowledgeable about the laws
steve says:
like when he goes "what are you going to tell them
"
steve says:
when she threatened to call the police
steve says:
then he goes "good luck with that"
steve says:
lol
teen says:
yeah
steve says:
that was kind of funny
teen says:
he stays so calm
hah. i like the "are you retarded?" part
steve says:
yeah lol
steve says:
so did u watch the whole video?
Cara says:
no
Cara says:
it scared me too much
Cara says:
like me and dad only the guy was calm
In this case the mother's verbal, psychological and emotional abuse was recorded succesfully, but imagine what she would have done if she had found out she was being recorded. I am not sure if she ever found out her abuse was posted on the Internet, but maybe one day it will be illegal for parents to stop their teenagers from recording and documenting abuse or to destroy the evidence.
Dell call
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/2006/10/dell-support-call.mp3