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  1. Judging and Understanding - EQI.orgeqi.org/judging_and_understanding.htmJudging and Understanding. Are Judging and Understanding Mutally Exclusive? A Judge Who Doesn't Try To Understand. Intelligence, Understanding, Judging ...

  2. Judging and Understanding Leora Bilsky - EQI.orgeqi.org/judging_and_understanding_bilsky.htmJudging and Understanding From historycooperative.org/journals/lhr/19.1/bilsky2.html. LEORA BILSKY What is the relationship between judging and ...

  3. Judging - EQI.orgeqi.org/judging.htmNon Judging Preacher Judging and Understanding ... When you realize you are, don't say anything until you can figure out what to say that isn't judging.

  4. Judging, Understanding, What if..... - EQI.orgeqi.org/ei_ed59.htmJudging, Understanding. I have written a little about this before. But I have been thinking about it again. I can't escape from this question: ...

  5. Non Judging Preacher - EQI.orgeqi.org/non_judging_preacher.htmyesterday my friend Jon that i haven't seen in a while came over to my house and what we did was unimportant but when he was about to leave he mentioned ...

  6. Feeling Judgemental - EQI.orgwww.eqi.org/feeling_judgmental.htmI would not want her to feel judged. Because we have a common goal. I have often felt very judgmental of "Americans". I realize now that I am labeling them.

  7. Understanding - EQI.orgeqi.org/und1.htmI started thinking about when I felt proud, creative, resourceful, inspired, trusted, successful, fulfilled as well as when I felt judged, mocked, insulted, afraid, ...

  8. Ivan and his Sister - EQI.orgeqi.org/p1/ivan2.htmDec 7, 2014 - I know that judging her, calling her lazy, etc. is not going to help her. Nor its ... And he said that Ivan is judging his sister and trying to control her ...

  9. Feeling Judgemental - EQI.orgwww.eqi.org/p1/feelings/feeling_judgmental.htmFeeling Judgmental. To create healthy, emotionally sustainable relationships we want the other person to feel safe, accepted, and understood. Judging does just ...

  10. You just.... Notes about motives, understanding, depression ...eqi.org/ujust.htmWhen you are being judged and when you are misunderstood, it takes energy to explain and defend yourself. If you have to do it over and over again, it gets ...


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  1. nvc_eqi_draft1 - EQI.orgeqi.org/p1/nvc/nvc_eqi_draft1.htmOne non-NVC way would be that you could give them an order or a command, for example by saying something like,"Stop judging me." Obviously, (or I hope it is ...

  2. Understanding - EQI.orgcore.eqi.org/und1.htmThe Relationship Between Judging and Understanding. Stories About Understanding. Understanding and Relief - How nice it feels to feel understood. A Father's ...

  3. Empathy - EQI.orgeqi.org/empathy.htmA basic guideline for showing sensitivity to someone is to not invalidate their feelings by belittling, diminishing, rejecting, judging, or ignoring them. Even just a ...

  4. Invalidation - EQI.orgeqi.org/invalid.htmTrying to Control How Long You Feel Something, or Judging You for How Long You Feel It. Are you still upset over that? It happened a long time ago.

  5. Stories about invalidation - EQI.orgeqi.org/invalid4.htmFeb 25, 2006 - You can see also that Jen is judging herself - thinking she is stupid to have gone to her housemistress. Yet Jen has no one else to go to, she ...

  6. Negative Feeling Words - Long List - EQI.orgeqi.org/fw_neg.htmjudged. K ========= kept apart kept away kept in kept out kept quiet. L ========= labeled laughable laughed at lazy leaned on lectured to left out let down

  7. amy convos1 - EQI.org A- sad. hurt, discredited, judged, invalidated, disrespected, lied to, discouraged, a little suicidal. S aw, hug. im sorry. want to tell me why you felt each of those?

  8. Rejection, sensistivity etc - EQI.orgwww.eqi.org/pwrtg1.htmThe next day I felt judged and rejected by her. I woke up in the middle of the night and wrote her a letter, which I gave to her the next morning. I sat there while ...

  9. Emotional Awareness - EQI.orgeqi.org/aware.htmThen we might realize we are feeling judgmental by judging how long it "should" take. Another example: You are in a room. Another person enters. At first you ...

  10. Emotional Intelligence - EQI.orgwww.eqi.org/eqi.org/Jul 16, 2014 - feeling intimidated, judged/not valued by a lady in the uk who runs an online facebook group for unschoolers. feeling less important than ...

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  1. APPENDIX B - FOR PARENTS &TEACHERS - EQI.orgeqi.org/eqtapp.htmThe teacher later told me she was afraid of being judged against the other teachers. Her own insecurity, then, was the cause of the lecture, not the children ...

  2. Emotionally Intelligent Alternative Society - EQI.orgeqi.org/eias.htm"Understanders" vs Judges. Safe to Tell the Truth. Seeking ... Judging. Punishment. Deserving. Labeling. Abuse. "Rights". Force. Law. enForcement. Judges ...

  3. Characteristics of Emotoinally Abused People - EQI.orgeqi.org/signs_of_emotionally_abused_people.htmWe perpetuate these parental messages by judging ourselves and others harshly. We try to cover up our poor opinions of ourselves by being perfectionistic, ...

  4. Teen Page - EQI.orgeqi.org/teen.htmThis is because parents of depressed teens are typicaly more used to talking than listening, judging than accepting, and discuraging rather than encouraging.

  5. Blame and parenting - EQI.orgwww.eqi.org/p1/blame_and_parenting.htmYou don't get judged. You don't have to move far away from them to practice (although that does help). And with a foreign language you can easily switch from ...

  6. Reply to Jim Sporleder - EQI.orgeqi.org/p1/uruguay/people/luke/repy_to_js.htmJul 27, 2013 - Had he not judged me preemptively, I would have spoken to him the way I speak to you, and the conversation would have been a lot less ...

  7. Education, Values etc - EQI.orgeqi.org/ei_ed13.htmShe sees those around her labeling and judging people, so she does the same thing to vent her negative feelings. Because she feels bad about it on some level ...

  8. Signs of High and Low EQ - EQI.orgeqi.org/signs.htmAttacks, blames, commands, criticizes, interrupts, invalidates, lectures, advises and judges you and others. Tries to analyze you, for example when you express ...

  9. Comments on Alfie Kohn's Five Reasons Not to Say Good ...eqi.org/ei_ed56.htmFeb 17, 2006 - For one, I agree that no one likes to be judged. Alfie didn't use the word resentment, but I think he realizes that a smart child will start to resent ...

  10. EQ for Everybody 1996 Edition - Chapter 2 - EQI.orgeqi.org/eqe96_2.htmOur upper brain is our rational brain which conceptualizes, analyzes and judges. It evaluates situations, and assesses the risks and rewards. A major principle of ...

  11. holl2 - EQI.orgeqi.org/p1/authors/hollander/holl2.htmExplain judging, punishing, threatening, rejecting, distrusting. He could have a list of expressions and words not to use. And explain why. - Explain that their ...

  12. katy3 - EQI.orgeqi.org/p1/misc/katy3.htmAsk children how they feel about their work instead of grading and judging them. Teach them to be their own judges. Teach them to question authority.

  13. Bad... - EQI.orgeqi.org/bad_system.htmOh, they are also good at judging, accusing, and punishing in Australia. It seems to be a Christian tradition. Actually it is more than a tradition. It is a fundamental ...

  14. EQ for Everybody 1996 Edition - Chapter 4 - EQI.orgeqi.org/eqe96_4.htmJudging from my travels, the majority of the people in the world suffer from low self-esteem. And because few receive training in the emotional skills required to ...

  15. EQ for Everybody 1996 Edition - Chapter 5 - EQI.orgeqi.org/eqe96_5.htmWe are judged. We are led to believe there is something wrong with us for feeling how we feel. Those who invalidate you simply do not accept you and respect ...

  16. Toxic Feelings - EQI.orgwww.eqi.org/p1/toxic_feelings.htmjudging sarcasm using words against labeling invalidation guilt trips you statements no i feel - no talk about needs no showing understanding psychoanalyzing ...

  17. Invalidating Environment - EQI.orgeqi.org/invalidating_environment.htmThis can be done through denying, ridiculing, ignoring, or judging another's feelings. Regardless of the means, the effect is clear: the person feelings are “wrong.

  18. Helping Relationships - EQI.orgeqi.org/helping_relationships.htmTry to figure out what the message is, what the person is really saying and what feelings they are experiencing right now. Avoid by all means labeling or judging.

  19. EI, Lying and South America - EQI.orgeqi.org/edi77.htmAnd I feel resentful when I think of them judging me and saying that something I do is not emotionally intelligent according to their standards. Is it emotionally ...

  20. Gerry Spence Notes from "The Making of a Country Lawyer"core.eqi.org/spence.htmAs if passion were shameful and feelings a crime, the judges wrote their antiseptic opinions. ... Her father's description as hating and judging everyone on p 257.

  21. October - EQI.orgeqi.org/cserv7.htmAsking if I can download my pictures is a bit of an unusual request apparently, judging by the looks I sometimes get! Sometimes waitresses or waiters are very ...

  22. 66 - not finished - EQI.orgeqi.org/edi_66.htmBuddhism What is a good Muslim? (Judging) Words - good, bad, right, wrong, proper, improper, appropriate, inappropriate, ethical, unethical, moral, immoral.

  23. more_love_or_more_money - EQI.orgeqi.org/more_love_or_more_money.htmMore people judging her and trying to control her or more people who care about her? Why does Ivan want her to do the things he thinks she "should" do?

  24. Cutting - From the teenager's perspective * - EQI.orgwww.eqi.org/cutting1.htmI think the most important way in which others can help self-harmers is by listening and not judging them. It is often very hard to even try and contemplate why a ...

  25. Beasly article about measuring EI - EQI.orgeqi.org/beasley2.htmIt's judging our traits with respect to 'the average'. Maybe I'm being emotionally and intellectually thick here, but why is this important? What does it matter how I ...

  26. Words - EQI.orgeqi.org/words.htmJudging Words. (Judging) Words - good, bad, right, wrong, proper, improper, appropriate, inappropriate, ethical, unethical, moral, immoral. Should, shouldn't.

  27. wikihow - EQI.orgeqi.org/p1/uruguay/nvc/wikihow.htmStating the need, without morally judging it, gives you both clarity about what is alive in you or the other person in that moment. For example, "I see you looking ...

  28. Colorado Shootingseqi.org/colorado.htm... "shoulds," punishment, incarceration, school suspensions, metal detectors, knee-jerk solutions, school uniforms, dress codes, private security guards, judging, ...

  29. Letters about Invalidation - EQI.orgeqi.org/invlets1.htmOr we might say it is a judgmental term and depends on the person judging the ... husband is not invalidating her and not judging her is a person who probably ...

  30. Trish - EQI.orgeqi.org/trish.htm... assumes that i'm involved in whatever i asked her and yells at me. She intimidates me from asking any questions because the outcome will be her judging me.

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